Sorry for not posting for so long. Like any of you read this regularly anyway. :PEveryone wants to be
great, to be known for something, to be looked up to.
In our world, greatness is achieved by being the best. The smartest, the fastest, the most beautiful or the most successful. Everyday, our parents tell us that we have to be the best in our classes, get straight A's and get a perfect score on our SATs. At school, the coolest, the prettiest, the funniest, the most athletic and the most social are the ones that seem to have the most friends and it seems like they have it all. It seems like this is how things are supposed to be; it
seems like this is the way to be happy. And we think, "
If only I was better, than I could be happy too."
Imagine a staircase. In this world, the people higher on the staircase look down on the people lower on the stairs and the people above are people to be beaten and pushed aside. This is how this world defines greatness.
But there is a
fatal flaw, a big problem, with this type of thinking. This type of thinking leads to
judging and
comparison. Basically, by trying to be the best,
you need to be better than someone else. So automatically, you are going to judge people and measure yourself against them.
The people around you become enemies. You have be be better than them. You have to beat them. So instead of loving them like God commands us to do, you hate them if they are better than you and you think they are worth less than you when they don't do as well as you.
Your life becomes
self-centered. It's all about you and how you can be better, greater, cooler, smarter, prettier, etc. You become self-absorbed and
self-absorption leads to self-destruction. You may never be able to trust other people again, never be able to hold onto relationships because you are always jealous of some and always feeling like you're too good to hang out with others.
As a Christian, God calls us to be humble and love everyone. He wants us to consider every person out there better than ourselves. God's view of greatness is reverse than the world. The people who choose to be at the bottom of the staircase, serving and loving others above themselves, THIS is true greatness.
In the parable of the workers in the vineyard (Matthew 20:1-16), Jesus says:
"So the last will be first, and the first will be last."
God says that He will make the first, the best of this world, and make them last, and those who make themselves last will be first.
He clearly shows that greatness is not measured by your achievements and your skills, but by your love, mercy, and humility. In Romans, Apostle Paul says, "It does not, therefore, depend on man's desire or effort, but on God's mercy."
In Philipians 2:3-11,
3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. 4Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.
5Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:
6Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be grasped,
7but made himself nothing,
taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
8And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
and became obedient to death—
even death on a cross!
9Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
and gave him the name that is above every name,
10that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.
Jesus, who is the King, our God, our Lord, Supreme in Heaven, made Himself a servant. He bent down and washed the dirty, dusty feet of His disciples, He went around and lived without money, depending on other people's kindness to get by, He stayed with the kind of people everyone hated, He talked to those everyone ignored, and He ate with the people who no one wanted to be with. And when these people blamed Him with crimes He didn't commit and condemned Him to death on the cross, instead of protesting, instead of calling His armies of angels to punish everyone, Jesus obediently died.
The world would see Jesus as foolish, even stupid. But God does not. God, rather, exalted Jesus to the highest place and raised His name above all names.
So, we are called to follow Jesus. God wants us to be obedient, to be humble, to be like a servant. This is greatness.