Doesn’t that all just break your heart? The young people of today are being mercilessly attacked everyday with the lie that who they are is simply not good enough. Can you believe that companies and businesses are deceiving youth with such lies simply to gain more profit? I hit the roof when I found out that even school portraits now offer a “retouching” feature to touch up any facial blemishes with airbrushing and even color enhancement. The message: your face isn’t even good enough for your school portrait. The price: $6. Or a lifelong feeling of insignificance and discontentment. Depends on how you see it. Apparently, the $6 is more valuable to the portrait studios.
The world is telling the young people of today that their only value comes from how they look. “Character” has simply vanished from the definition of beauty by the world’s standards. Ads only campaign for perfect bodies, flawless skin tones, amazing smooth hair so they can make people feel insignificant until they get their product and achieve “perfection”. And did you know that a study showed the average North American girl sees 80,000 ads before kindergarten? Don’t you think the message would get across pretty clearly by then? And what’s even more sad is that models you see aren’t even real—tough luck trying to be like something that doesn’t even exist!
Young people today—both guys and girls—have been reduced to simply objects to be judged and criticized. Day by day, our bodies get older and older—everyday is another step closer to the day when our bodies will decay and be no more. The youth of today do not know that. They do not know that one day, they will stand bare before the judge—with no make-up, no gel, no curling iron, no skinny jeans or plaids—and what will be seen in plain view will be the one thing which all these years they have not taken care of—their image that truly matters, their image of God. I shudder to think how that is going to look for a large majority of those living around us.
Youth need to know what really makes them valued, what ultimately will last, and what can be really beautiful, is their image of God they have been generously given. We were created to be spiritual beings by a loving God who doesn’t care what color hair you have, the number of zits you have, how skinny you are—he created all of us out of love, and youth need to know this.
How can we make a difference? Girls and guys, we need to step up and let our lights shine. We ourselves need to first stop valuing ourselves based on appearance, by not spending hours in the bathroom every morning (myself included!), by not caring so much about our clothes, shoes, make-up, etc. We need to be prioritizing the condition of our hearts and our inner self. Furthermore, we need to stop judging others by what we simply see, because we are all guilty of this. Jesus chose to look past surfaces to see what ultimately mattered, and we need to reflect the way Jesus lived and loved by seeing the beauty of those around us even when they cannot. Girls and guys should never, ever feel insecure about the way they look, because they are sons and daughters of the King of Kings, and He created each and every one of them with His very own hands in His image, and He loves them just the way they are. This message needs to be shared with every single person!!
So, instead of reflecting at youth the wrong image the world is bombarding them with, let’s reflect the beauty that comes from within—the beauty God has entrusted us with which will outlast them all.
Kristen Lee, Davis Senior High School, Class of 2012


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